Love yourself for who you are and love others exactly the way they are, as we are all imperfect. Then there should never be any reason to judge. You nor anyone but God is in a position to judge. Do you know everything they have had to go through? Are they alone and depressed? Have they lost a loved one? Have they lost two? Were they abused as a child (physically, verbally, sexually, etc.)? Have they been filled with Hate?! Do they just need to be Loved?!